doubt it and be buried!
+ if only i took the other option and not this one.
- because it failed?
+ yes.
- are you sure if you had taken the other one, you would likely to succeed?
+ i guess so. err ... actually mmm... i dunno.
- so?
in life, we are often faced with more than one options in which we need to decide which one to take. and there are indeed various approaches in making decision, some may downsize the numbers of the available options and some other may list the bad and good things about each available option to ease the process.
the actual challenge is however not only in the decision making. it is also in embracing the consequence of each desicion, the price that we have to pay for we do not always take the right decision. sometimes even the most carefully risk calculated decision still turns out to be a bad one.
in the occasion where our decision goes amock, turns out bad not exactly like we want it to be, it is essential that we do not let our mind doubting our decision just because previously there is or are other options. if we do so, we will likely be mad to ourselves and missing the learning points of our downfall.
moreover it is indeed time and energy consuming that is if we keep crying over the spilled milk. worse still, we will likely find it harder to make decision in the future. and that ain't nice knowing that life is indeed about choices.
well maybe a reasonable doubt is ohhhkaaaayy *grin* but still, do not let the dissappointment lingers, that it blocks you from taking the corrective steps or news steps to manage the setback. it is indeed easy to utter, but the practice?
when it is so obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. confucius000859
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somehow this entry connects to my personal life... *big hugs to eda!*
ya wis lah. que sera sera. piye toh. c'est la vie. eh bener ora tuh prancisnya? hihihihih... udah deh. baca musashi aja. jadi ntar posting yang ini, gak laku dikomentari :p
it's better to regret something you've done rather than something you've never done....
'cuzzzzz... "penasaran" is A BITCH!!!!!!!
have you heard curiousity kill the cat??? :D
yg penting itu emang proccessnya na.. bukan tujuannya..
gitu khan yang lo maksud ?
*gw udah lulus untuk jadi orang dewasa? huehehe..result oriented*