revealed!
Jotted down on 2 January 2006 08:08 with 2 Responded
i had a lil chat with my boss last year about life values. i was not aware nor had any of those life values then. maybe i just did not realize if i had one. i dunno. anyway, he talked about life values that for him are a kind of road signs that he will watch carefully and not disobey while driving (his life that is!).
since then, i am kinda seeking for my life values. and it ain't easy!
life values can be anything. for my boss, one of them is honesty. so it will likely that anything he does will promote this very value. and yep, he is one of the honest persons i have ever met!
i got several life values, errr maybe not life values yet, just values that i believe in. values that i dearly promote in any action that i take. and i ain't no angel, at times i found myself deceiving my own value. help! *grin*
and yep, sometimes you need to undergo a hard lesson to understand and embrace a life value.
just last week i had this conversation with a friend of mine :
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is she a lesbian?
i think you need to ask that question directly to her. i do not have any right to answer that for her. and even if i know the answer remains the same.
haha i preached. don't get me wrong. i ain't no angel. i was a bit in an defensive mode at that time. hehe. you know i was in the same situation twice last week. where two friends of mine asked me a rather personal question about my other friends. whaaaatt?
i felt a bit concerned afterward. did i by any chance reveal things about my friend to my other friends before? have i been the keynote speaker of my friends' life? my.
well if the question is something like : is she pretty? i guess it is easier to answer (though, do i look like a jury in a beauty pageant or what?) hehe. and yep beauty is relative. haha. but if the questions are is she a lesbian? or she falls in love with him, does she? my. flabbergasted.
then, i learned something from my own answer. i do not want anyone who wants to know me start asking about me to my friends (and i'll try not to do the same to my friends). if you have question about me, just spill the question out directly to me. if it is too personal, i will just flash a big grin. hehe.
sounds like a life value?
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Posted at 2 January 2006 10:45
ya..ya.. it's value.. na...
justru biasanya dari chat-chat dan kesalahan2 kecil itu kita bisa belajar satu hal..
*nyambung ga seh, na?!* :mrgreen: