the thought that counts!
Jotted down on 6 January 2006 11:37 with 6 Responded
the thought that counts. ya ya ya. the very sentence to amuse oneself when receiving a rather unsatisfying present hahahahaha… *big grin*
a conversation
+ boy did not invite me to the christmas party, but he invited a friend of mine.
- oh well, just come if you want, i’ll be the one who invite you. the more the merrier
+ but i can't. i got an appointment already on that day hahahaha
- hahahahaha, you just don't like the idea that your friend is invited and you are not eh?
sometimes, we feel so bad cause a dear friend kinda neglects us. perhaps neglects our message over the messenger. or our sms does not get replied. and start thinking that we are not important at all. our friend do not like us and so many other rather negative thoughts. those thoughts serve nothing but making one feeling even worse.
of course we can not always remember to call each and any one of our friend. we may at times forget our friend's birthday and stuff like that. but does it mean that we neglect them? not necessarily. so why worry?
eeerrr perhaps you may want to take a more assertive approach and initiate a conversation to share your feeling. perhaps that will easily solve the *seemingly a problem* between you and your friends. maybe the explanation is as easy as your friend forgets or hasn't had the chance to call you.
hey, the rather negative thought that has been eating you is actually not worththinking no? *grin*
When you feel neglected, think of the female salmon, who lays 3,000,000 eggs but no one remembers her on Mother's Day?
Sam Ewing
Posted at 6 January 2006 11:12
hahaha.. pikiran2 negatif itu deh..yg kadang menyesatkan kita!! bisa jadi yg sebenarnya terjadi ga separah pikiran kita..
jadi emang lebih enak klo...cuek ajah !!!